Key Takeaways
How Well Are You Protecting Your Privacy?
No one wants to believe their soon-to-be ex-spouse would act out of malice during the divorce process. However, the two of you used to share just about everything – bank accounts, bills, computers, and much more – which means if you haven’t yet secured your private information, your ex could potentially access it. Protecting your privacy during a divorce is critical, not just for your peace of mind but for your future security.
Why Privacy Matters During Divorce
Maybe at first glance, you don’t think there’s anything you would mind your ex seeing. But think harder. What about your Facebook profile or private messages? Are you still using the same shared bank account? Can your ex access your email or see sensitive financial documents?
Protecting your privacy is about more than just convenience—it’s about safeguarding your financial, personal, and emotional well-being.
Insights from Celebrity Divorces: The Importance of Privacy
Celebrity divorces often serve as extreme examples of what happens when privacy isn’t prioritized. As seen in tabloids, celebrities frequently face public scrutiny during divorce, making it difficult to heal and gain clarity amidst the noise. While most divorces don’t involve the same level of publicity, the lesson applies to everyone: keeping things private can help reduce stress and lead to better outcomes.
Attorney Melissa Zillhardt explains in this video how maintaining privacy during a divorce can alleviate unnecessary tension and create space for a more civil resolution:
“Keeping things close and private can really help alleviate background noise and unnecessary stress, which leads to better and more civil outcomes for your divorce case.”
Steps to Protect Your Privacy During Divorce
Maybe at first glance, you don’t think there’s anything you would mind your ex seeing. Think harder. What about your Facebook profile or messages? Are you still using the same bank account the two of you once shared? Can your ex see your bank statements? Consider the actions below to start thinking about the aspects of your privacy that could use an update.
1. Secure Your Online Accounts and Passwords
Who can access your accounts or see what you post? Update your passwords for all online accounts—banking, email, and social media. If you and your ex shared devices, ensure your login details are no longer stored on any device they could access.
2. Be Careful with What You Post Online
Your social media activity could be used against you during divorce proceedings. Think twice before posting photos or updates that could be misinterpreted or harm your case. If you’re unsure, it’s best to stay offline.
3. Create Private Financial Accounts
Open new bank accounts and lines of credit that only you can access. While transparency with the court is required, having separate financial accounts can help protect your finances during the divorce process.
4. Communicate Thoughtfully
Emails and messages exchanged during divorce can often be brought into legal proceedings. Avoid writing anything inflammatory or emotional that could hurt your case. Keep communication professional and factual.
The Importance of Taking Action Now
Your privacy is your responsibility. Whether it’s safeguarding your online accounts, being mindful of social media, or securing your financial assets, the steps you take now can protect you from unnecessary complications later.
If you’re unsure how to address privacy concerns during your divorce, speak with your lawyer immediately. The attorneys at Petrelli Previtera, LLC have seen countless situations involving privacy issues during divorce, and we can help you take the correct action.
Divorce is challenging enough without the added stress of worrying about your private information. By proactively securing your digital and financial privacy, you can move forward with confidence.
If you’re ready to take the next step, schedule a consultation with a family law attorney today.