When starting the process of divorce, there are many decisions you have to make. One of the most important can be who to hire as your family law attorney. You want someone you can trust to help you navigate what is to come. You may also be vulnerable, emotional, and stressed out. You want to be able to rely on your attorney when you are not as confident in yourself.
Key Takeaways
How to Find the Right Divorce Lawyer
Here are some things to consider when hiring the right fit:
1. Think About Your Goals
Try to imagine how complex you think your divorce will be. Do you have children? Shared assets? Think about what you want to accomplish. Your attorney can help you manage all aspects and prioritize the order in which you tackle them.
2. Do Some Research
Start with the internet. But also ask around for referrals. Do you know someone who had a good experience with their family law attorney? Is there a lawyer in another area of law you trust to recommend a colleague? It always helps to have insight into your attorney beyond just a random search.
3. Schedule an Initial Consultation
This is your chance to meet face-to-face and get a personal impression. Come prepared with questions and be ready to listen. You’ll receive a lot of information, so bring a notepad to take notes if needed.
Key Questions to Ask During Your Consultation
As Attorney Melissa Zillhardt explains in the video below, asking the right questions during your consultation helps ensure you’re hiring the right lawyer for your unique situation.
Here are some examples of questions to consider:
- How will you address my concerns about custody, finances, and communication with my ex?
- What strategies do you use to reduce conflict during the divorce process?
- Do you have experience with cases like mine, and what were the outcomes?
- How will you keep me informed throughout the process?
“This is your divorce and your life. If your attorney is just going through the technical motions of the divorce without addressing your personal concerns, then you will be disappointed.”
4. Reflect on Your Options
Revisit your goals for your divorce and think about what you learned during your consultation(s). Look at the facts but also trust your gut. Can you envision working closely with this attorney for the months to come?
5. Make a Decision
When you know who you want to hire, reach out quickly. While your divorce attorney will make you feel like you are their only client, the reality is they may have a busy schedule. Acting quickly ensures you’re able to move forward on the timeline you discussed.
Take the First Step
If you are in the initial stages of a divorce or other family law matter, please contact Petrelli Previtera, LLC. We help clients every year who are navigating family law issues and are here to help you find clarity during this challenging time.
Let us answer your questions, even the ones you haven’t thought to ask yet. Schedule a consultation today, and let’s work together to build a path forward.